When toxic polarization becomes a civil war – and what we can do about it

When toxic polarization becomes a civil war – and what we can do about it
“We have to understand that we are in a moment that requires us both to see and feel the depth of the crisis and its complexity. But we also have to have an ability to think about what it is we’re trying to build.”

This week, Nonviolence Radio hears from John Paul Lederach, an international peace-builder, mediator, and scholar. Stephanie, Michael, and John Paul have a rich and wide-ranging conversation, one prominent theme is the power of pockets. This plays on the title of John Paul’s latest book: The Pocket Guide for Facing Down a Civil War. In it, he encourages us to remember that we all exist within various communities – pockets of the world – and that each pocket represents a unique perspective which is valuable to every other one.
Only by engaging honestly and kindly with these different views can we create – like a work of art – a better, more peaceful world. One wonderful aspect of this pocket metaphor is that it empowers each and every one of us to make a difference. Even the smallest act of love (in the broadest sense of the word) – wherever one is – is an act of creation. Such simple, accessible actions when woven together re-humanize those we might be inclined to dismiss or degrade. Right from within our pockets, we can build alternatives to the toxic polarization we see so much of today.

Van Hook, Stephanie, and Michael Nagler. “When toxic polarization becomes a civil war – and what we can do about it.” Nonviolence Radio. March 25, 2025 (published).

Shared with the permission of The Metta Center for Nonviolence.

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